"Our wedding isn't for a few more months, but we have already started receiving mailed gifts. Should I wait to send out "thank you" notes until after the wedding, or should I send them now? Thanks!"
Care: "YES, send them out now! Take it off of your to do list and the guest will appreciate knowing that you received it. Make sure to keep a good running list and make sure to cross/check off all of the ones you've written (you don't want to miss anyone). You can also set a day (ex. every Sunday) to sit down and write the ones you received for that week, which may be easier then writing them one at a time."